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Lessons I’ve Learned About Cultivating Good Friendships
I argued with God in my mind, complaining about the lack of reciprocity in one particular friendship. I went on and on about how much I gave and how little I received. I even had specific arguments and occasions to bring up as proof of ill usage by my friend. Until God completely stopped me in my tracks. You’re acting like she owes you her friendship. That’s not the way it works, Anna. Friendship is a gift that is freely given and a blessing that is received. Needless to say, my internal argument with God trailed off. I was immediately out of steam and feeling pretty bad about my internal…
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Five Simple Ways to Spend Time With Jesus Throughout Your Busy Week
If you’ve been a Christian for any amount of time, you’ve heard about the importance of spending time with God and developing a devotional life. And yet, for many, this seems like a daunting task. I’ve met many people who struggle to start developing the habit of spending time with God because it seems like a huge, time consuming commitment. Spending time with God is a commitment, and it is important, but it also doesn’t have to be an overwhelming prospect. I believe that if we take small steps, we will make progress whereas if we try to make big leaps out of the blue we will only land flat…
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A Call to Encounter the Living God
In a world where many people are deconstructing, reconstructing, or dismantling their faith, I have found myself wondering what the essentials are and why we find ourselves adding embellishments to our relationship with God. I have seen countless people pursue religion from a hollow soul, doing outward works but never experiencing true, internal transformation. I have seen people lose themselves in “ministry”, pursuing the expansion of God’s kingdom. And yet, the true pursuit of God cannot lead to empty, dead tradition. The true pursuit of God (as seen throughout the Bible and history) changes us, transforms us inside and out, and pushes us forward towards becoming more like Christ. It…
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God Works Best in Chaos, and He Brings Beauty Out of It
In the beginning, God made something out of nothing. The world was dark, void, and chaotic. There was no shape or beauty to be found, and the atmosphere was desolate. But with one word, one breath, light sprang forth and everything the Spirit of God touched became alive. He brought the chaos into order and filled the void with Himself. The shapeless gained beauty, and suddenly, earth was bursting with life. It’s in the emptiness that God can work in us and fill us with His life, giving meaning to every crevice of our hearts. God did this to the world when He created it. He also did it with…
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How God Works In Spiritual Winters
I’ve always thought there was something magical about spring. It’s the season where snow melts, flowers blossom, and the world casts away its winter blanket to greet the warmer days. I live in a place where spring looks like the dry season and not the picture-perfect version I mentioned above. So this visual of fresh life and shedding of the cold has always had a unique appeal to me. I believe it holds this special appeal because of its sense of hope, resurrection, and overall newness. But here’s the thing. For spring to arrive, winter must first run its course. How many times does it occur like this in our…
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Grow Closer to God Through Wonder and the Redeemed Imagination
Why is it that the older we grow, the more we lose our sense of wonder? Time and again, I’ve asked myself why imagination is viewed as childlike and cynicism as a sign of maturity. But let’s not forget that wonder and imagination are the reason we have airplanes, the Eiffel Tower and Ratatouille (the movie, although the food looks great as well). Wonder is a quality that Jesus highly values. He even told His disciples that unless they became like children, they wouldn’t enter the kingdom of heaven (Matthew 18:3). I believe He wasn’t saying disciples must be immature; rather, they should have the same trust, faith and open-mindedness…
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When Faith Runs Out, God Has Enough for Both of You
“Against all odds, when it looked hopeless, Abraham believed the promise and expected God to fulfill it. Or ‘who beyond hope in hope believed.’ He took God at his word, and as a result he became the father of many nations. God’s declaration over him came to pass: ‘Your descendants will be so many that they will be impossible to count!’” – Romans 4:18 Sometimes I wonder what our lives would look like if we took God at face value and actually believed that He will do what He says He will do. Many of us have gotten used to praying without expecting answers, believing without expecting to see, and…
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Advent Reflections: Peace When Your Mind Is in Pieces
Busyness usually comes hand in hand with the Christmas season. It seems that the end of year is a constant slope beginning with Thanksgiving and speeding down to New Year’s. This is both energizing—time with family, friends, celebration—and also wearying over time. For some the season is smooth, but for many the road to the new year is full of bumps along the way. Whether from family stress, grief, feeling overwhelmed, or a sense of dread of the unknown, Christmas season can be the most wonderful time of the year or the most mentally chaotic. When Your Mind Is in Pieces During Christmas Christmas is a reflective season. This isn’t…
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The Turning of the Soil: When God Disrupts to Prepare
What do you do when life turns topsy-turvy? While talking with some friends in my small group, we realized that most of us are currently experiencing a stretching in our relationship with the Lord and our daily lives. We’ve all been feeling this odd tension, where things that used to be perfectly fine are no longer working quite the same. There’s this feeling of discomfort, that the places where we felt steady and established are suddenly not so deep rooted as we thought and there’s this nudging in our hearts that Holy Spirit is calling us higher. As I reflected upon this, I realized that this is what God does…
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Between the Promise and the Breakthrough
“But if we hope for what we do not see, we eagerly wait for it with perseverance.” – Romans 8:25, NKJV I wonder how many times Abraham felt like giving up. He was promised a great family who would fill the earth and yet year after year went by with no sign of even one child. Or even the entire nation of Israel, wandering in the wilderness waiting to someday enter the fabled promised land God had promised generations ago. What about David before becoming king? He’d been promised a glorious kingdom, and yet he’d spent years upon years in the wilderness, running for his very life and eventually taking…
